You are a loving couple. You came from different religious backgrounds. One of you was raised to celebrate one holiday this coming season and the other one a holiday from a different tradition.
You love your children. You want them to grow up with the recognition of their place in the universe, one that is respectful not only of the world around them and the people in it, but also of their own person as integral. Somehow these important values seem to have a connection with what we have come to call God.
You are not that strongly rooted in your religions of origin. You married "out" yet you felt some values that you experienced in your love for each other. And sometime you also made a covenant with each other in which you wanted the presence of God as its guarantor.
It would be good to designate a place in your home to become God's corner. There you place some candles, a flower and other small objects significant for each of you. If in that place you were to offer some words of hope and prayer for the concerns you have, affirmations of the values you hold, and offer thanks for the blessings you share, and if you did this in the presence of your children, that would give them a heartfelt experience on which all the other words and symbols of the traditions of your background would be able to build.
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