Steve Waldman

Steve Waldman

Founder, Beliefnet.com

“On Faith” panelist Steven Waldman founded and is chief executive of Beliefnet.com, a Web site focused on spirituality and faith. About three million unique visitors come to the site each month, and 9 million readers subscribe to its newsletters. It has won an Online Journalism Award for general excellence. Prior to establishing Beliefnet.com in 1999, Waldman worked as the national editor of U.S. News & World Report, and as a Washington-based national correspondent for Newsweek. He also edited Washington Monthly. Waldman served as senior advisor to the CEO of the Corporation for National Service and authored the legislation establishing the volunteer organization, AmeriCorps. He contributes regularly to Slate, National Review and National Public Radio. Close.

Steve Waldman

Founder, Beliefnet.com

“On Faith” panelist Steven Waldman founded and is chief executive of Beliefnet.com, a Web site focused on spirituality and faith. About three million unique visitors come to the site each month, and 9 million readers subscribe to its newsletters. It has won an Online Journalism Award for general excellence. more »

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Mutual Monologuing

When Beliefnet launched in 1999, one of the main reasons offered for why we’d die quickly was that religious people believed they have a “monopoly on truth” and therefore would have no interest in (virtually) hanging out with people from false religions at a “multifaith” website.

We’re still around, and the reasons relate directly to your opening question. First, it turns out that people who are certain that they’ve found the right way want to tell others about it. What’s the point of Knowing the Truth if you can’t brag about it? For Christians and many others, there is an obligation (borne of love) to talk it up.

Well, you might say, that’s not really conversation, that’s a monologue. True. But sometimes when people monologue at each other, they accidentally hear what the other is saying. Even if they don’t agree, they come to accept the basic authenticity of the other person’s viewpoint. They go from being cartoon characters to humans with whom they disagree. That is progress.

Second, religious people swiftly find common ground ridiculing their common enemy: secularism. One reason religious Christians embraced Joe Lieberman in 2000 was that while he was a Jew, he was observant and therefore an ally in the war on secularism.

Most important, a large majority of religious people don’t actually care about doctrinal differences. For them, faith is personal – a sense that they have a great Partner helping with life’s travails. That someone else might have a different view is often unfortunate but irrelevant. On our website, we often find that when people go to message boards to debate doctrine or philosophy, they seldom change minds. But look at one of our interactive prayer circles – say, for a child battling leukemia – and you’ll see prayers from many faiths. Almost never will you find the mother of that child complaining that someone of a false faith offered a prayer.

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