The Problem is Me
We have entered what columnist Kathleen Parker calls "a political era of uninhibited belligerence," that is finding expression in sermons, at town hall meetings, on radio talk shows, even on the floor of Congress -- especially when we differ. Why are people so angry and belligerent, and so willing to express their anger publicly? Why has our civil discourse become so uncivil? What does this public anger say about our private faith? What should we do about it?
Susan Jacoby is certain the conservative right is to blame. Cal Thomas believes it's also the fault of the far left. Whether it's politics or religion, whether it's a national media debate or neighborhood gossip over the back fence, we all love to blame someone else.
The core of Christian faith is to look inwardly for correction of self, not outwardly for correction of others. There's nothing wrong with constructive criticism. That's one of the ways we learn and grow. But when I denigrate someone else's opinion with shrill and sarcastic language, or in my rebuttal of someone's argument I search for clever words and phrases that demean and ridicule the individual, I have become the problem. Ad hominem attacks, verbosity and sophistry were never much of a substitute for either common sense or common decency.
Jesus Christ's model of behavior is temperate language, kindness, patience, self-sacrifice and turning the other cheek. His frequent condemnation was for lawyer-types whose sophistication with language and argument can so easily divert attention from the real issues and distort the truth.
The last part of this week's question is: What does this public anger say about our private faith? What should we do about it?
Answer (from Matthew, Chapter 5):
Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: (21-22)
Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; (43-44)
Unrealistic? Naïve? I prefer to think of it as advanced citizenship.
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Michael Otterson
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September 18, 2009; 10:02 AM ET
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Posted by: Eichendorff | September 29, 2009 4:05 PM
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kjohnson3
The answer to your question is simple.
What Brother Otterson said is true.
What you wrote is not.
How do you keep a straight face?
Mark
Always seek the truth.
Posted by: volkmare | September 23, 2009 2:26 PM
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VOLKMARE
Yes, Glenn Beck represents LDS attitudes and beliefs very well.
Posted by: coloradodog | September 23, 2009 8:55 AM
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"The core of Christian faith is to look inwardly for correction of self, not outwardly for correction of others."
This is an amazing observation, given that Mr. Otterson's church has the strictest and most comprehensive code of behavior this side of the state pen.
Furthermore, in the Mormon community, people spy on one another, tattle to their bishops, and quake in their own boots when summoned to a meeting with those bishops. And the church encourages and reinforces this behavior by promoting the tattlers while reprimanding and even casting out the transgressors.
So, with a membership body raised up from infancy to look for (and dutifully report) others' indiscretions, how can Mr. Otterson say these things with a straight face?
Posted by: kjohnson3 | September 22, 2009 3:55 PM
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Great column, Brother Otterson
It is always inspiring to read your take on the subject.
Mark
Always seek the truth.
PS: even Glen Beck recognised the truth when he saw it. His life is better for it. Just ask him, he'll tell you.
Posted by: volkmare | September 22, 2009 2:37 PM
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M.O.:
According to one of the stories in the Bible therein, god deliberately 'confused' the Sodom and Gomorra folk near the 'Tower of Babel' by making them "TALK IN TONGUES" and run around like chickens with heads, bumping into each other etc..
So, the signs of these times, by god (and not the one you nor any human think they know; which for sure is not a human form of a god) is that the world is now again, deliberately being made 'confused' and therefore 'angry at each the other.'?
Prophecy: Please understand sir that this weeks U.N. Security Council meeting will also find itself confused and will display anger and fustration between themselves like never hath experienced nor seen before by the world.
To start, '911' happened after 'DUBAN-1' and todays Financial Global Tsunami is another sign of many, not to omitt the Bird/Swine-Flu that's about to hammer (or Punish) humanity further for their past and current APATHY's And many more curses to come. According to this god life is expendable (no SALAVATION).
The curse of "THE-BLAME" is comming And the Judeo Mormons or Christiandoms are not immune. Nor are the Judeo Jews or Judeo Islamics or the Hindu nor Buddhists and others. And Praying such away (god visiting in Mysterious-ways) will not help anyone. No, the 'RAPTURE' is not what this is, that will inevitably come in a Billion Years or so.
But for now and in the not to distant future, cross your fingers and HOPE for the best.
Posted by: bloglady | September 22, 2009 10:11 AM
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Great column, Mr. Otterson.
Now, too bad you can't convince your Mormon Elder Glenn Beck who reflects your Utah membership's homophobia, racism and misogyny and uses these to get rich by scaring and angering his lemmings toward violence and civil war.
Posted by: coloradodog | September 22, 2009 7:32 AM
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I suppose jesus was being unchristian when he was angry in the synagogue.
If you want to read about sacrifice and lack of anger, etc. read Ramayana and Bhagvad Gita. There you will see forgiveness, self sacrifice, love unabridged, etc - even that newly acquired western understanding that the emphasis is on actions, not scriptures.
Rationalizing good values on a mythical figure like jesus or allah is not very useful.
hariuam
Posted by: Navin1 | September 20, 2009 2:30 PM
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Answer (from Matthew, Chapter 5):
Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: (21-22)
Most texts of the bible do not have (in v 22: without cause); it is considered a later edition to the text. For most of us, the text reads:
but I say to you that if you are angry with a brother ["or sister" understood] you will be liable to judgment, and if you insult a brother [or sister] you will be liable to the council, and if you say, 'you fool' you will be liable to the hell of fire.
The Sermon on the Mount is intended to be absolutes; it is not good news (gospel) but law [the accusation that we cannot obey].
By putting "without cause" in the statement about anger, we give someone an out. For Jesus, the anger at another is always rejected, for among other reasons, it is the first step that leads to murder. Without anger, there is no murder. The impossibility of life without anger shows that we are to strive for the highest, and never attain it. Thus, we must rely on gospel, the good news that it is done FOR us already.
By adding "without cause", especially in political discourse we allows for the distortion of the other that says "see, he/she gave me cause to be angry with him/her" As Christians, we are to be not angry. Period.
Pr Chris
Posted by: CalSailor | September 20, 2009 1:15 PM
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Michael
Well said. Thank you. Have you heard the interview Krista Tippet did with Sean Corne on Speaking of Faith?
Posted by: donnwp | September 19, 2009 11:49 AM
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The fault is not in me. The fault is in my ideology. If I believe there is only one way to truth, only one savior, only one church, only one last prophet, one highest book that applies to all peoples - then it is rational for me to decry all others.
When churches and mosques stop telling the world that they are the one and only way to heaven, there is only one savior, that all other gods are false gods, etc, then people will be willing to learn that we are all god's children, all in earnest search for God and Truth and thus debate helps us all to get closer to That Truth (Tat Sat).
hariaum
Posted by: Navin1 | September 18, 2009 4:16 PM
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kcjohnson3, you are a classic example of insanity. Apparently you live in some bizarre universe cooked up in your diseased imagination.
I have been a member of the Church all my life. I served as a bishop myself. Never in my experience has any of the things you describe ever taken place.
You need to see a psychiatrist.