It is a state of mind. It should permeate the soul. Gratitude is an attitude. It is one to be cultivated and nourished until it’s part of our mental and spiritual hard-wiring, to be passed on to children and grandchildren by example.

The American Thanksgiving has a quality about it that is unique among all national holidays. When I moved to the United States 15 years ago, it was the Thanksgiving season that most struck and impressed me.

There is something poignant about setting aside a time primarily to express unconditional thanks. Still largely unspoiled by the commercialism that sadly overwhelms Christmas, and uncluttered by the expectation of gifts, it’s a holiday that can be significant for the believer and the nonbeliever. It’s what we choose to make it.

Gratitude is a powerful motivator. When my adult children tell me they’re grateful for the way they were brought up, it strengthens the bond between us and encourages me to try harder to be a good parent. When I tell them I’m thankful for who they are, it has the same effect - especially if we are willing to overlook each other’s faults.

For the Christian, gratitude for the Atonement of Jesus Christ may be the most powerful motivating force of all, impelling a believer toward inward reflection and living a better life. Scripture is replete with encouragement to all of us to express gratitude.