Not some religions, but all religions have much to say about sex. Why? Because sex is scary, combining as it does procreative and pleasure mysteries.
Sacred and scary have much to do with each other. Rudolf Otto says the holy is "the mysterium tremendum et fascinance," the mystery that is "tremendous" and "fascinating." Mysteries can be alluring and they can be threatening.
Some religions think sex is so alluring that it takes the place of God in peoples' lives. They are probably more right than not. Others used to think that and have changed. Others celebrate the sexual impulse and expression exuberantly--but usually in contexts. Thus most religions make much of commitment and fidelity, and they like to regard sex in the context of both.
Catholicism and most Protestant denominations used to be rather crabby about sex; today even Vatican experts say that (married couples) should really enjoy conjugal relations.
Valentine, after all, was a saint--though I am sure he would have no idea how he got connected with romance.
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