Morally Wrong to Abandon Iraq Simply To Save Ourselves
War is evil. War represents a failure of leadership. Nevertheless, as this is a far from perfect world, I believe that there are times when war can be justified.
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January 14, 2007 5:32 PM
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I Have Changed My Mind
I not only could change my mind, I have. There was a time, a long time, when I did not question the traditional teaching of my Christian faith on the matter of homosexual activity.
April 30, 2007 9:53 AM
The Wisdom of Accepting an Apology
I want to begin by challenging the assumption that there is any equivalence between apology and repentance. That linkage may exist – but it may not.
More than a few folks have been known to offer an abject apology motivated by nothing more than that they got caught. An “apology” is, by itself, no more than a formal expression of regret – the motivation behind that regret may or may not be articulated. It may not even, necessarily, entail an acceptance of responsibility. (“I’m sorry if you misunderstood me.”) Such an apology may, or may not, result in different future action.
November 19, 2007 7:36 AM
Forgiveness and the Path to Freedom
Forgiveness is the path to freedom. If ever we are to live as free persons we must find the way to forgive even when our enemy is unrepentant, even when our enemy is actively pursuing what we find to be their evil intentions. To fail to forgive the repentant, as well as the unrepentant, enemy is to remain their prisoners. Hatred and fear isolate; and isolation diminishes a person.
Forgiveness, however, is a somewhat misunderstood concept. To forgive is to come to genuinely want “the good” for that person who is my enemy, as only God knows “the good”. However, to forgive does not mean pretending that some evil did not happen. Nor does it mean explaining away the culprit’s responsibility. It does not mean coming to like that former enemy, though that sometimes happens. And certainly, forgiving does not mean coming to trust that enemy. It is entirely possible, for example, for one person to genuinely forgive another while at the same time believing that he or she should spend life in prison.
The journey to forgiveness is not an easy one. Along that way one must stop to recognize the humanity of the enemy. Of equal importance is coming to grips with one’s own faults and failures. If ever a person is to truly and deeply forgive, they must know themselves to have been forgiven. I know of no short-cut on this journey. From within my own Christian tradition the only way that I know to grow in forgiveness is by taking the time to reflect on the deep reality of the other person’s fundamental humanity, to examine oneself, and to hold both, and all, before God in prayer.
One final point: the enormous power of forgiveness to free oneself from the deadly entanglements of anger and hate is a power reserved to the injured party. Forgiveness is not easy – but it is essential to freedom.
