Arun Gandhi

Arun Gandhi

Co-founder of the M.K. Gandhi Institute for Nonviolence.

Born in 1934 in Durban, South Africa, Arun Gandhi is the fifth grandson of India’s legendary leader, Mohandas K. “Mahatma” Gandhi. He is co-founder of the M. K. Gandhi Institute for Nonviolence, now at the University of Rochester in New York. He is a regular participant in Renaissance Weekend deliberations with President Clinton and other Rhodes Scholars. He worked for 30 years as a journalist for The Times of India. He is the author of several books, including "A Patch of White" (1949) and "The Forgotten Woman: The Untold Story of Kastur, the Wife of Mahatma Gandhi," which he wrote with his late wife Sunanda. Close.

Arun Gandhi

Co-founder of the M.K. Gandhi Institute for Nonviolence.

Arun Gandhi is the fifth grandson of India’s legendary leader, Mohandas K. “Mahatma” Gandhi. He is co-founder of the M. K. Gandhi Institute for Nonviolence, now at the University of Rochester in New York. more »

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Your Religion is Like Your Mother

That so many Americans switch Faiths during their lifetimes is not an indication of their deteriorating spiritual health. I think it is a telling commentary on the deterioration of religious practices in all religions. Instead of providing the believer with "mental peace and salvation" modern religion seems to fill people with "fear". Religion, like every other aspect of human life, is almost totally fear-based. The fear of sin, the fear of Satan, the fear of God and his wrath etc. I am reminded of the prophetic words of my grandfather uttered sometime in the 1930s when Dr. B. R. Ambedkar, the leader of India"s hundreds of millions of so-called "untouchables," threatened to leave Hinduism if reforms were not implemented. The vision of converting approximately 150 million "low-caste" unfortunates lured many Christian and Muslim men of religion to India.

The Christian priests stood at street corners and loudly denounced Hinduism and offered the discriminated Hindus great opportunities if they joined Christianity. Weeks later they found that not many accepting their lucrative offer. E. Stanley Jones, a renowned United Methodist minister, asked grandfather M. K. Gandhi why, and his reply was: "The day you stop talking about how good your religion is and start living it you will find millions flocking to it."

I think these words are prophetic and very pertinent to today's discussion. They apply equally to all religions of the world.

Yet, in another sense, grandfather was against changing religions because he considered one's religion to one's mother. He would say: Just because your mother is less attractive than your friend's mother you can't abandon your mother and adopt a new one. If one is born into a religion and finds it less than desirable one needs to stay and do something to change it or reform it. In other words one should not run away from one's responsibilities not shirk them. This will only lead to greater dissatisfaction.

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